How many sentences? How many questions? other comments,etc? What works best?
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Here's the golden rule (Applies to any context):
1) Never, ever talk more than her. At the most, you talk as much as she does. If she gives 3 sentences, you give 3.
2) Change your questions to statements. Asking questions is like giving your nuts away. There's more ways to finding out about a person without needing an actual "question."
3) Never put more thought into your messages than she does.
In short, you can match, but never exceed the amount of effort she is giving you.