I think guys take it better because to us it really isn't about how much money a girl spends on us, it's the thought that counts, but if a guy goes dutch than he's a cheapskate penny pincher etc when a woman goes dutch on a date she's considered just being cautious keeping things simple, protecting herself from possible disappointment, etc. also one more question for guys How much have you spent on dating? how much do you usually spend?
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I think it should be the person who asks the other out and chooses the place who should pay. Gender shouldn't matter.
This guy invited me out once and chose the fanciest most expensive place ever when things were tight for me, without telling me where we were going beforehand and made me pay for half (which I'm fine with if I had say in the restaurant or it was reasonably priced) and I was very short on funds for the next bit since I'm a student!
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