We've been together on and off for almost 3 years. He treats me like his girlfriend, tells me we're together, tells me all the time he's not with anyone else, kisses me in public and is basically my boyfriend, but we're still not dating. Why?
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You're giving all the milk away for free! He doesn't feel the need to make it official. I hope you aren't sexing him at his command as well. Basing off of what you said- it sounds like he's not into you enough to make you his official girlfriend. You would think that a guy would want to claim a girl that he's head over heels for so no other guy can get her.
I could be wrong, and in this instance I hope I am- you deserve better. Tell him your feelings and that he has a decision to make. Make it official between you two or you cut the friendship/ relationship for good! (or just stop hanging around him so much so you can move on).1