we haven't really been getting along and every time I see her she is annoyed at me as I had tried to date her but she wasn't feeling it , but I do really like her and still consider her a friend , I don't know I'm torn , she couldn't really get upset at for simply saying hi happy birthday could she ? or is it better to just say nothing at all .
and I won't see her in person today it would only be online that I could say anything
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If you mean "any point" as in that she will feel better towards you or in the sense that you get any benefit from saying this, then no, I'm sorry there probably is no point.
Though if you want to just wish her a happy birthday from the goodness of your heart not expecting her to change any feelings about you, then go right on ahead because she probably won't get upset or anything from it.
Just so as long as it's not anything drawn out or weird, just short and simple. "Happy birthday (:" over something like "hey, hope you've been feeling better lately, I miss talking to you, happy birthday and I hope you have a good day" etc.0