And why do some people so easily find someone while others (like myself) have never been in a real relationship?
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To have a real relationship, you first need to get clear on --- what do you want, what kind of guy, what kind of relationship...ect.
Don't see yourself through other people's eyes. Wondering why they APPEAR to have a real relationship just makes you crazy because there are so many variables.
Focus on what you want, with clarity. Don't focus on the absence of what you want. Like driving a car or riding a bike, you end up where your attention is. Best of luck !0