I always wonder that. My friends say I ditch guys too quickly/easily. I'm not really into casual dating, so when I feel like a guy doesn't want a relationship and is too sexually-enclined, I move on and stop dating him.
Right now, I'm seeing a guy that's very much a sweet talker and eager to get closer. He claims he'll wait for as long as I need, but I think that's bullsh*t. I believe he just hopes he'll get in my pants if he sticks around for long enough. I like him though, we have chemistry, lots in common and we get along great. I told a friend that this guy is one strike away from getting dumped for his player vibes, and she asked me ''Why do you keep dating him if you're just waiting for his next faux pas?" That's an interesting question.
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I dated a guy who gave me a vibe of a player, as I dated him for 3months we never talked about anything sexual we only got to the point of kissing. I am a virgin, so I can't deal with getting played, so I began asking his intentions, he said he was serious but I got the vibe of him wanting to play me. I finally got to the point of asking him again, what he wanted because I did not feel we were on the same page. He ended up trying to play me...He said he wasn't ready to be in a relationship and said he still wanted to have me there. I obviously called him out on his lying a** telling me he was serious. He then told me he doesn't like labeling relationships...Now he was definitely trying to stay longer to get something out of me...He did not know I was a virgin though. Be careful, start by asking what he hopes out of you two. If more than 3-4 months pass and he never mentions a relationship or getting to that point, it might not go anywhere and he will play the game right. Like you, I definitely have concerns about guys.0
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