I've been seeing a girl for over a month now. We've already been out once, and around 2 weeks later we managed to set a time for a second date (we both have busy schedules). So the day before we're supposed to meet up, she texted me to say she couldn't make it and immediately rescheduled to the day after (Friday). So fast forward to last Friday, I text her to ask if she still wanted to come out, but this time she cancelled without even bothering to reschedule.
What's weird was she was giving off positive signs before, but all of a sudden she just changed. Some of my friends think that I should try and get her to come out again, others say she should come to me.
Should I call it quits or is it worth continuing until I get a definitive yes or no to whether or not she'll end up as my girlfriend?
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If I were in your position I'd probably move on.
She's giving off mixed signals which suggest that she's not that interested at all.
If she truly was, you wouldn't be posting this question on here.. You'd be balls deep in that ass so to speak.
I think you should cut all contact with her for 2/3 weeks whilst actively meeting other women, and IF she makes contact with you play it cool but don't rush for the date, make her do the work. If she doesn't make contact, then, I dunno? Who the f*** cares?! It isn't going to affect YOU as a person.
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