So I asked this guy to hang out about a week and a half ago and he said yes, but our schedules were busy so we never got a chance to set anything up. I brought it up again, but then our schedules didn't match up again. We set a tentative day, but then that didn't happen either. The night before that tentative day, he sent me a message asking me if we could hang out sometime, and so I asked him if he was free for the next day and he had something to do for work, and we haven't talked about hanging out since, about 4 days ago or so.
Would you tell a girl you wanted to hang out if you really didn't mean it?
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me, not now. but when I was about the age you seem yes I would. several reasons and most of them bad. 1) maybe he is to shy and really wants to, but is afraid of getting close and then you not really like him. now 2) deep down he is a jerk and just leading you on, telling his friends how you won't leave him alone. 3) he has someone else he likes better and they are coming first or 4) he is leaving you in the wings, for a rainy day.
I would suggest you straight out ask him your concerns then maybe he will be truthful and let you know which of the 4 above he is. hoped it helped some. danny0