I have been seeing him for 3 months. Things are great. He started wanting to talk about some things we had talked about the other night again so we did.
HE brought this convo up so I went with it.
I told him I was scared because everything is so different and new with him.I told him I wanted to get to know him and was is no rush.
Was it a turn off to tell him I was "scared?"
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I think that fear in a relationship is pretty common for a lot of people. They don't want to get hurt after all. It might not have been what he wanted to hear, but I don't think it would have been a turn off. You communicated how you really felt, and that is a good thing. Lots of guys wish their girls would actually tell us how they feel about stuff instead of getting mad at us for not being mind readers. I think you did the right thing by being honest. Hopefully he is the type of guy that will respect that.2