So I started talking to a very friendly same hobbies type of girl, very attractive too I might add. Anyway I end up talking to her for a month, my messages I feel are very engaging and she already pointed out I was a really funny guy. However, after about 10 super long emails she just stops responding to me without a reason at all. Hmm, I'm just left scratching my head, thinking is it something I said? Did I move to slow? Is it because of the long distance? So far its been a weeks time and I've got nothing back from her. I usually take one or 2 days to respond and she takes 3 maybe 4 sometimes. So, I guess my question is, if she really doesn't want to talk to me anymore, can't I at least have a reason or she can tell me she is talking to someone else; really I just want a reason. I wasn't too wrapped up in her yet, but I just wish sometimes girls would be more open and show some respect.
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I have run into the same problem with online dating. I've been left hanging a bunch of times and I wanted to know a reason and never got it. And I have talked with a guy as long as you have without meeting up/exchanging numbers. Girls go through this too. Always be mindful that the other person is probably talking to at least one other person if not more. It can be a combination of things that she just stopped talking to you. I was told talk to the person no more than 2-3 weeks tops through messaging and then at least exchange phone numbers around that time and set up a date to meet up. I hate when anyone suddenly wants to ignore someone else especially if they been talking to you for a while and things seemed fine. I think they at least owe you some type of reasoning.
Messaging back and forth on a regular routine only lasts for so long and eventually messages aren't as often as they use to be. She might be waiting for you to ask her for her number. You can always try one last time and reach out to her see what she says.3
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