To make it short I met a Marine Officer. He never has too much time for me but when he does, he treats me like a princess. Now recently he seems cold and his best friend told me that I deserve better and that he's not right for me because he decided not to date me anymore since I didn't want to sleep with him after the 5th date...and yeah and that men from the military never really get serious with foreign women because we're mostly just a 'Foreign Experience'.
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There are women of certain let's say, nationalities, who are stereotyped as being desperate to be with an American man, for social reasons and validation and approval that they are worth their attention.
Or to get out of poverty.
My guess is, the guys simply want the experience of 'tasting the rainbow.' They want to see what it's like to be with a woman from a different cultural background from a different part of the world.
But there's also the chance you're just dealing with an a**hole. If he'd been acting cold towards you since you mentioned not wanting to have sex with him, then, he was just another person who wants sex while you want more.
That was an issue of incompatibility.2