I'm getting kind of sick of it. Any time a guy is interested we will talk for a little while and then they'll stop talking to me. I am kind of quirky, but I'm not crazy or anything haha. There's this one guy I'm talking to right now and we have so much in common and there's no doubt there's a connection. When he first got my number we would have really long conversations over text and we got really deep about a lot of stuff. I could tell he was really special. Now, we don't text as much and we only have a class together once a week. I just find it so weird that I can send him a text that anyone would reply to...Like yesterday we were talking and then I told him I just found out my sister is getting a divorce...no reply! I find it so weird. He definitely doesn't act like he's not interested...He called me perfect yesterday and said he missed me... But how come he doesn't find it a priority to text back? Seems really odd to me, because regardless if you like texting or not, if it's someone you like, you want to talk to them! I don't get it. I don't want to text him again and overdo it because it's obvious he doesn't want to talk to me...
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Generally, most guys equate texting in the initial stages of getting to know a woman as putting in "work" to win her over. As the novelty of pursuing her wears off, in many cases, a significant decline in texting will as well, which most women misinterpret as a sign of disinterest.
The fact is, men and women communicate differently. In my experiences, guys text to get their point across and will often limit casual texting once they become familiar with a woman. Women, on the other hand, are communicators and thus text as method to express themselves.
On that note, you may find it helpful to cut back on the texting with this new guy and perhaps increase in-person interactions. Texting guys without spending time with them gives them the impression that you are not serious about being with them or that they are friend-zoned.
To avoid a recurrence, try to be as visual or tangible as you are vocal to guys.