ok so i met this guy online about 5 years ago. we've been texting on and off ever since. he usually only text at night when hes horny. he says we should have sex and well take it from there. is it possible for him to see me as something more than a booty call without losing him?
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No. You said yourself, "he usually only text at night when he is horny." its obvious signs the guy just wants to use you for sex. talk to him about this and ask him what he is looking for in a girl. if he says he just wants to chill, have fun and not looking for anything serious then he is definantly just about a bootycall when he only wanst to talk to you when he's horny. let him know that you don't want this type of relationship if you don't like it. If he really likes you, he'll do more than this and start calling you other than for sexaul reasons and not so late at night. he will try to make it wrk. if he doesn't or says he will but his actions are still the same, he is up to no good and does not care about you. So then drop him, hon. You deserve better than that. you know what you want and you go for that and don't settle for horny losers like him.1