I met a guy in a bar and gave him my number, since then he hasn't stopped calling and texting me...and now wants a date this sunday, and is willing to drop plans he made for that day to come on this date...i have told him I need advance notice..and further to this he has asked to stay on my couch if we go out for a drink...bear in mind he is driving 2 hours from where he lives to see me...*this is how I see it and would appreciate some validation and opinion with this* I don't appreciate feeling under pressure to drop everything I'm doing because someone says so, not only that I'm not comfortable with a guy on the first date wanting to sleep on my couch, to me it says he has another agenda?...over to you peeps!
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My question for you is: why are you considering this?
Is his scheduling a date without advance notice not a dealbreaker? Or the insisting that he crash on your couch? Or the obligation/guilt trip for the 2-hour drive? What about *this is how I see it and would appreciate some validation and opinion with this*?
Any one of those, ANY ONE, would be worth losing his number. But the combination platter?