I believe in them. I will ask a woman out who is at least a 4, 5, 6 in the looks department if she had a nice personality. I'm at least a 4 in the looks department. If a woman is too attractive, I'll dismiss her and ignore her. Asking a beautiful woman out is rejection waiting to happen. Do you believe in leagues when it comes to dating?
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I believe that some people believe in leagues and use that as an excuse but I don't believe in leagues because they are completely subjective. I might find girl A to be a 9 and girl B to be a 4. My guy friend might find girl A to be a 4 and find girl B to be a 9. Girl A might find me to be a 4 and my friend a 9 and girl B might find me to be a 9 but my friend a 4.
So, I'm a 9 to the girl that I think is a 4 and a 4 to the girl that I think is a 9. So, to one girl I am better looking while to another girl my friend is better looking. Yet, it's the opposite for my friend and I when it comes to finding these girls attractive. Just like in sports, transitive property doesn't work in looks since they are completely objective, which means leagues are completely subjective. Unless something is objective it's pointless to believe in it as a way to determine who you should date.
Date people you find attractive and that find you attractive back. No need to worry about leagues because you might find a girl to be extremely hot and this girl might find you extremely hot, but all it takes is to believe in this idea of leagues and believe that you're not in this girls league or for this girl to believe that she's not in your league and the relationship might never happen because both of you refuse to take a chance of asking the other out simply because of this whole "league" thing. A person can easily drown oneself in self-pity. Oh, she's way to attractive for me, she's way out of my league. She thinks the same thing that you're out of her league. Which is why transitive property doesn't work because if it did, you can't both be out of each others league.
Same thing can be said for a person that thinks to highly of themselves and think they are out the other persons league when in reality the person they think they are out of their league finds this person to be extremely unattractive. So, in this case they both think they are out of the others league.
So, yeah, leagues don't really exist, even though there are people that believe in them. Just date people you are attracted too, and that are attracted to you as well since this whole league bulls**t is completely subjective.1