It's a question in general but it fits my situation as well. I went on a date last week with a guy I talked to for a while (blind date) and it was...okay. I kinda realized he's not my prince charming. He was trying too hard to be funny or this or that. But I said I wanted to get to know him better but the more he texts me, the more he annoys me. I don't think he's funny anymore and when he finds something he can "tease" me with he uses it for days and days until it gets too much, so I just ignore the last comments then.
So anyway, I was wondering how many of you would tell the person straight that they're not that interested (and how do you tell them) or do you just let them notice it for themselves by limiting contact or something.
Or if any of you have advice for my situation, always welcome and thanks in advance!
- Yes, I tell them straight to the point32% (14)37% (7)33% (21)Vote
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Most Helpful Girl
depends on the situation. sometimes I drift and sometimes I tell them straight.
i think ignoring first and then if they KEEP going you might have to say something.
example I went on a first date, he was OK. but then he tried to pressure me into going on a second date the next night and I said I am busy with schoolwork but he kept begging me and so I gave in.
then I regretted it so I cancelled on him. I figured he would get the hint, but he still kept texting him, so I texted him nicely that I don't think we are right for each other. it's easier to be direct.4