Growing up, I was always the girl who liked guys, but never got liked back. I was kind to everyone, friendly and I'm sociable and confident. I hadn't had ANY relationship experience and no one to teach me, not even my mom, so I just went off of what I felt was right. The first guy I dated, rejected me after 2 months. I was hurt, embarrassed & wished I had another chance. After this guy, I read books on dating, learned a lot, and tried to improve myself as much as possible. After a year, I met a great new guy. We talked and went on one date, but he never ended up calling me again. I was devastated because I felt like I kept messing up. Like my lack of experience was killing my chances of being with the guy I liked so much. I recently saw this guy after 1.5 years of not talking. I hoped he would call/text me after seeing me, but nothing. I feel so empty because my whole life, I've dreampt of having a happy relationship that I would see other girls having. I am 20 years old and never had a boyfriend. I beat myself up everyday, thinking of all the things I could have done differently. I try dating other guys and keeping myself busy to get over this guy, but I can't. I wish I had another chance with this guy but I can't...What can I do? I'm kind of depressed.
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I'm in the same situation here in India.I'm studying medicine and surgery.So due to studies and a strict culture I don't have a girlfriend although I look nice compared to other guys in my college.
Guys of my age in your country probably lost their virginity so earlier compared to me but instead I believe if I involve myself in dating then it'll ruin other goals of my life because I sacrificed a lot to get admission in a medical college in my town.
My advise to you is to get a better physique because Men mostly like looks this days, I know it's sad but it's the truth0