So I met this girl at the club Saturday night and we were all over each other, she gave me her number and I texted her later and we chatted late into the night. The next day we flirted all day through text messages while she was at work. When she got home she added me to Facebook and I added her to MSN. She said she needed a nap so I asked if she wanted me to call her still later, and if we were still on for hanging out the next day. She said yes to both, but then didn't answer her phone later. Sent her a text saying sorry if I came on too strong and to let me know about hanging out. Wake up this morning and she had deleted me from Facebook. So I send her a message on it saying if I'd come on too strong I'm sorry it's just I haven't been single in almost two years and I'm just nervous. She then blocked me on Facebook without answering me. What the hell?
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Women are evil.
No seriously, there definitely wasn't anything you could have thought to do differently. Sometimes a girl just changes her mind, rather she didn't actually change anything but things just seemed different to her from one day to the next. Would be nice if she turned into a witch and plotted to turn you into a toad, at least you could be mad about that, but unfortunately you just have to put up with some awkward feelings that kind of suck
As a shy guy, I know how awesome it is for a girl to initiate something. As a good guy, I did try to over compensate to make sure I didn't offend her or bother her. But as a nice guy I didn't call her out when I knew it was over, but she hadn't said anything to me.
Seemed like a lot happened in a short amount of time, so you may need to pause your thoughts on the matter before letting them take over. May not want to press too much for an answer as she may offer volunteer one, one day.
BTW My head nearly exploded by the girls' phrases like "keep your head up" and "just not for you". I've heard those a lot before and they don't really mean shit shit dude. Lol Just know that you did nothing wrong, you're the same guy you were a week before this, just now you got a little busted up from this small romantic tiff. Call it a badge of honor.
PS Sorry how my last comment sounded like one of 'those' phrases, my head did explode/