I already told him I don't want to but he's begging me and trying to convince me to go on just one date with him. Do I really have to get mean to get my point across? I declined politely. I barely know him and I already told him I'm dating someone else casually right now.
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If you are declining too nicely he may think you are playing hard to get. You may need to get mean with him, but before that just try telling him a very firm no. If he keeps on after that you may need to act more aggressive with him.
I would not advise going on the date. If you go out with a guy and he finds out you really never liked him, he is likely to blame you for using him. This guys ego is strong enough to handle several rejections already so your getting mean is unlikely to cause him serious harm. Still it would be best to avoid having to get mean if you can help it.
They way he is trying to break down your will to get you to go out with him gives me the impression that he knows how to manipulate women pretty well. I could be wrong and he might be a sweet guy that just has it bad for you, but he sounds like the wrong type of guy to get involved with either way.0