Im dating this girl and just today she told me how I'm always making sexual remarks when talking to her. I told her to tell me what was wrong and she told me I do it all the time and it annoys her. So I listened and told her id work on it. I then proceeded to say something that I didn't like that she does. Funny thing is we still talk to each other when it happens and I make a sexual remark, she just acts less interested but today she went full out and told me. Things went fine after, we kept talking on the phone. I've been on 2 dates with her (slept with her on the second). Is this normal? Have any of you girls done this to a guy? telling him what you don't like? I know there's other things as well that annoy her. When I said is there anything else, she says "this is just the start"...
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Ouch I wouldn't say that "this is just the start" I mean why doesn't she go find a guy that fits her then.
i don't think she gets..its inappropriate for her to speak out in such extreme absolutes..I mean we all know only a sith deals in aboslutes. She's seems high strung lol. Anyways, I think after couple months, when the annoying things come out..i believe if two people want things to work they should
1. communicate what they want to change
2. the partners must seek to give and compromise.
3. Express your needs with brevity. And if the person is a good one ..then they'll know how to handle them. Hence the term compatibility.
4. give each other TIME to change not who they are ..but perhaps the habits..the trivial crap.
The thing is...she isn't communicating that the action is what bothers her..It seems like she's communicating disapproval of you. which is illogical to be with someone then if you disapprove of them.
Drop her she's immature.