We have been dating for 5 mths. He is extremely busy. When asked if he really wanted me to text him every day so he's involved in my life even though he can't respond or spend as much time as he wants with me, he said it's important to him and yes he does want me to text every day. He already said yes to my reassurances that he still wants a relationship with me. When we are intimate, he asks me if he is hurting me and says he doesn't want to hurt me. He tells me I'm beautiful. There are days he will text or I will, but mostly me. However, it's exhausting to me to text every single day. I wasn't sure if he was testing me or if he really does want me to keep him "in the know" since we can't always spend time together. He is responsive whenever I text.
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Yes. This isn't exactly abnormal. If he wants to stay in contact with you daily it's a great sign, especially if he has a busy life. Most guys use that excuse to not text or talk all the time. If you're tired of being the one to initiate contact then bring it to his attention. Communication is a two way street and relationships tend to fall apart without it. There has to be some level of balance, it should never be 60/40, or 80/20 in terms of anything in a relationship.0