It seems like more American men are luring towards wanting to date women from different other countries, compared to local woman. American men say U.S. women mostly care about wanting to stay single for the rest of their lives and not care about being in a romantic relationship. They also say American women care mostly about money and not men on a romantic level (of course these are men's words not mines), anyway, that's why international dating among American men has become very popular and seems to be growing in future years to come.
I want to know is it really hard for an American man to approach an American woman and spark her interest, without her thinking he's a waste of her time and air? Probably due to her been hurt in her past, so she takes out on men in general.
I also want to know are there also some American men who don't mind staying single for the rest of his life, due to his bad experiences with women in his past?
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There are several reasons that American men are having problems with our women. Despite what women claim, men are now in direct competition with women. If she makes more than him, has a better education than him, taller than him etc, the woman is more likely to feel that she is out of the man's league, and deserves a better man. While certainly not all women feel that way, the ones that do tend to remain single the longest and ruin dating for a lot of guys.
Men have also been taught to be ashamed of their sexuality in America. When young boys start approaching young girls they are often rejected very cruelly, with accusations about the guy being shallow, perverted, and creepy. To avoid these accusations some guys try to befriend the girl before asking her out, and this is what gets guys friend zoned. Our media also makes men out to be perverts, so a lot of men avoid approaching because they don't want to be seen as a pervert, and a guy that doesn't approach isn't going to do well with women.
American women are being taught strength, American men and being taught to validate their worth by a woman's affection. If you look up how to be a stronger woman you will find all sorts of advise for how a woman can increase confidence and learn independence. If you look up the same thing for men, you will mostly find books on how to pick up women.
American women have also been taught that anything that shows a man love is a type of servitude to the man, and is shameful. Cooking for her man for example is really just showing that she cares for him, by taking care of him. Basically it is how men get our romance from women. Since women will actually avoid doing these things now that they are seen as degrading to women, American men often feel unloved, by their woman. Basically American women need to relearn the art of romance to make a relationship work.
The destruction of gender roles also causes all sorts of confusion as to who need to do how many chores. Even though study after study has shown men are doing as much work as women, our women still start fights all the time about the man not doing enough. Everyone believe they have it worse. It is much simpler with gender roles. The guy does this, and the woman does that. No more fighting about whose turn it is to do something.
The lack of any strong male role models is also causing a lot of problems for men and women that grew up without fathers.
Most women tend to love foreign men regardless of what country they are from, so American men enjoy the attention foreign women give us. I have heard from several people, that the average white American man is treated like a king by women in Asian countries. Their love of American men, and their culture of taking care of the man make the men feel loved and valued. For some men it is the first time a woman has ever made them feel that way.
Then you will of course have people that will always believe the grass is greener on the other side.10
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