last week this guy I met messaged me asking me out for drinks. the intended date is tomorrow, but we haven't spoken to each other all week. can I send a text being like 'hey, we still on for tomorrow?' or something like that. or should I wait for him to contact me?
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Going all week without touching base before the intended date makes me a bit nervous too. I think it's fine to reach out. After all, you're a busy girl too, so you want to know if you're being taken out or go with other plans, right?
As a guy sending a text to a girl, I personally avoid the, "Hey, we still on tomorrow?", line. It sounds just a tad too needy to me. Instead, I'll send something along the lines of, "Psyched?" or "Excited?". The person you've arranged the date with should have enough of a clue to know you're talking about getting together. The point is to communicate with confidence and maybe with a bit of fun.