I love this girl but she has a boyfriend. And they broke up about a couple weeks ago. I wanted to wait awhile(say about a week) before asking her out. But the following week they got back together. Then he dumps her 3 days later, and she tells me she not over her ex. And I don't know when to ask her out.
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Well my first bit of advice to you Is that you might not want to ask her out at all. I think it might end badly for you.
Sadly, you can try telling her how you feel about her but I'm betting you'll just end up a rebound, which almost never ends well. If she does date you there is a chance you'll just end up getting treated unfairly, and while this happens one of two things could also happen as well. She could end up getting over her ex and ditching you, or end up figuring out she likes him better and kicking you to the curb anyway. Really I know it sucks man but don't bother. You're asking for trouble.
Should you choose to not heed my warning and decide you want to ask her our anyway, I'll start by asking you, is she worth the risk? If so, then let me also tell you that I admire that. It's a great thing to risk it all for love. If you really want to ask her out and tell her how you feel then I recommend doing waiting about a day after she breaks up, and start by comforting her after the break up and then follow up by telling her how you feel. Tell her that you hate seeing her like this, how you have had these feelings and been wanting to ask her out for a long time, but didn't know how.
Those are suggestions of what you can say... if you have something better by all means. Anyway If you win the girl over then you're gonna have to work really hard to beat the spread. I mean think about it. Rebound's a bitch.
I'm rootin' for ya. Good luck.3