My girlfriend and I have some mutual friends, some of which she told she either hooked with and some just messed around, one of them said wouldn't have sex with her but liked her bj talents so she would visit bout once a month. Well, that's fine we are both adults, single parents, and I'm no angel. I didn't ask her to tell me this. Great personality, beautiful, wonderful mom. My problem is that since I'm the first guy she is seriously dating since her divorce she made me wait for sex, I respected that, did it, was worth it. Now, now she has a uti and refuses to give me a bj, Wtf? I care for but I want to get off. She admittedly refuses and gets pissed when I ask, been 2 weeks, I have told her I need some relief, doesn't care? What's going on?
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Who cares, dump her.
She plays games around sex. Maybe she just wants it when she wants it and is happy with the 'you being faithful' part of the monogamy but not the part where she then becomes responsible for meeting some of your needs.
Or maybe she thinks that if you care about her you're supposed to not need sex any more and you being frustrated is how she feels cared for.
In either case, its early, so get out now.0