This girl and I texted for about 2 weeks. Pure flirtation and sexual innuendoes.
We finally met up. She is much better looking than her photos to my surprise. Talked for a few hours, and managed to get her back to my place. We made out for an hour...but I don't feel anything.
I'm not sure how she feels, but we are still texting and stuff. she's really cool and gorgeous, and I want to develop feelings for her. It's just not happening, why is this?
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I believe in the power of chemistry as an outside entity. As if it has a power of it's own for a reason. There is no question that your paths were meant to cross. There is a reason for everything. With that said, just know it's not a waste of time.
I had a few experiences like this. One in particular baffled me because I'm a sexual minded dude and we met she's as beautiful as ever we were deep in flirtation where we almost attacked each other but, as the night went on she was just a cool chic to hang with. I massaged her gave her a kiss and an awesome hug. One night she came over and we just snuggled up in bed looking sexy as ever and fell asleep like nothing. No big deal.. This is totally unlike me lol TOTALLY ! neither of us seem weirded out by it. Its just easy calm cool but no thoughts of her or desires and I don't feel them from her... Strange although she is cool to hang with and we will be going to my parents to shoot stick soon (pool) lol didn't want you to take that the wrong way lol...
So it is what is, seems like I got a friend out of the deal ... roll with it man. nothing wrong with either of you...1