I used to be very standoffish and not go on dates very much, but I always had guys interested. Now, I want to experience the "dating" life and really meet someone special. So I've worked hard and opened myself up a lot. I'm a lot sweeter, easier to get to know, and if I like a guy I'll say yes easily when he asks for a date (whereas before I'd get too scared and make up an excuse).
However NOW that I'm doing this? Guys seem less interested. They'll text me less and rarely ask me on a second date. They'll still act interested a bit, but never as much as they were before. I'm thinking I should be playing hard to get like I used to, because I always had guys around when I was doing that.
What do you guys think?
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No, that's stupid... and solves nothing. You'd still end up with jerks getting through and you'd probably scare off some nice guys. Plus as far as attention goes, it happens... it doesn't matter what you do, there are days when no one will show interest and other days when people are falling over themselves, it's not an attitude thing.1