Im not saying dating is bullsh*t like I'm mad Because I don't date much or have trouble. I'm saying it just seems like nonsense most of the time.
Im probably wrong but I will say that if guys are supposed to make the first move and be confident then why is it that we are waiting for a sign from a woman? is that not the woman making the first move? if a guy just will ask out a lot of woman then he gets a label as a player or desperate. but if he does not then he is gay or has no game. but the same kind of thing happens to woman.
if a woman takes the slightest bit of initiative and exudes confidence she gets labeled as a whore or desperate and if she does nothing she may miss out on someone she likes.
Not exactly fair.
most of the time you hear ladies say they want a man with confidence or guys want woman who are confident.
real confidence is great and all nothing against someone for knowing who they are and what there good at. but then you will see the majority of people are cocky or arrogant and its mistaken for confidence
I don't even really know what I'm trying to say here. it just seems like dating is a bullsh*t act that people put on.
or am I just wrong? lol
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or am I just wrong?
Meh you're not wrong in my opinion as I find dating in regards to heterosexual dating to be mostly bullsh*t with guys sole motivation/intention being to get a f*ck (I highly doubt most guys would even consider a sexless relationship) and the gal working herself up in a state to please him and get him to commit to her.
Im probably wrong but I will say that if guys are supposed to make the first move and be confident then why is it that we are waiting for a sign from a woman?
Possibly so guys can have higher chance of success by approaching those that want to be approached as well as acknowledging gals consent in interaction by not bothering/pestering those that don't want to be approached.
is that not the woman making the first move?
Depends on what is considered the first move as I find most considered direct active engagement such as approaching and talking to be the first move not indirect passive engagement like giving usually subtle signs of wanting to be approached.0