Do super-hot women ever date/consider really shy guys.. ever?
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Shy or introverted? I ask about which one because people commonly (and frustratingly so, lol) connect the two when they aren't mutually exclusive.
Shy infers that the person has some kind of discomfort with either socializing with others/having attention on them, a discomfort with themselves, or both. Introversion is simply a person that doesn't feel the need to express themselves outwardly, as they have an internal dialogue that happens naturally and before any thought of being outward ever happens (among other things).
If the first, unlikely. Of course it's always possible, but shyness is connected with insecurity and lack of self-confidence, which aren't very alluring traits. If you mean introversion, then yes it's much more possible. You still have to mesh with the person, and have the chance to show you're comfortable and confident. But introverts, once known to people, really just become known as having a more stoic nature and that's the quirk to them. But if I'm any proof, my lady-thing is a fox (and an extrovert), but I apparently did something right to get her to do couple stuff with lol.
Also I'd like to add, if you're asking this about yourself, I'd advise you to not go looking for girl because she's hot or not. Just like you don't want to be known as "that shy person" because you know you have more to offer, don't make a girl's defining trait be how she looks or that she is just a pretty face to you. She may be more, but pointing out looks like that tends to cover up whatever else you may like about her. Girls aren't your toys, so chasing after "super hot" ones simply for that is a bit low.1
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