Nothing perturbs me more than when a guy does this. He'll text you "Hey" and you respond with a "Hi" 20 minutes later, and he just drops off the face of the earth, though you know he's still up because of social sites you share. Really? Is it that "pinging" crap I've always heard about where guys do that just to see if we're still there?
I don't know why I answered.
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Well try to jumpstart the convo, don't just answer with "hi", it'a kinda tasteless...be like Heyy what's up?! Just don't be too crazy or over enthusiastic. It'll just give him something to respond to. Guys in general are bad testers. They're less needy attention wise than us girls because we're more emotional, most of the time guys don't know how much attention we pay to these little things or how much it bothers us. So the fact that they're ignorant to it makes them that much more difficult. With a little effort though you should get more attention. Give a little, get a little :)1