From getting to know each other to being in a relationship with her we would text each other a lot, about 5000. And now after 1 month into our relationship she just doesn't text me as often anymore. It went from 5000 to 1000 a month.
Another thing is that she switched her phone to those phones that have like abc on the 2 key from a phone that has a qwerty keyboard phone, so it might be harder to text and she doesn't really bother to anymore?
Do you girls tend to not text that often anymore once you're in a relationship with the guy already?
What do you guys think? Any thoughts?
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it sounds like the "honeymoon" part of the relationship is over. now its time for the real relationship between you two. just becasue she txt's less doesn't mean anything. just like you said she got a new phone. and believe me I wouldn't txt 1/3of what I do if I didn't have a keyboard style phone. also that's an obserd number of txts. are you two able to see each other almost everyday? cause my girlfriend and I are long distance and don't even send 5000 txts a month to eachother. altho we do call and talk on the phone alot. maby you should do that instead of txtn her asleep call her and talk her to sleep. when you two are around each other and smothering each other and it doesn't matter that's what I call the "honey moon relationship" the one it doesn't matter how lovey dove you two are or how much you smother each other and its great but its not the "real" relationships where you learn about their bad side and stick threw them threw fights and the good aswell as the bad. communication will slow down by your feelings for each other do grow stronger. jsut remember and don't be mad if one day she only sends like 5 txts sometimes people just need a day to them self's and away from their love. but yea relax don't worry soo much just chill and in time you will understand what I'm talking about if you don't yet. and good luck I wish you the best2
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