Following my previous question link
I've been dating this guy for a week. We saw each other on Friday, Sunday and Wednesday pretty much all night long. We've texted everyday of the week and I didn't kiss him until Wednesday.
Things were going well but last night, he turned me off a LOT. He had asked me to lend him something as a favour. I met him up on my way home to give him that. He suggested he'd go by my place to give it back to me at the end of the night, after his squash games with 2 guys. He did, I invited him over for a bit, since he had never been at my place whereas I'd been over at his 3 times this week.
Turns out he stayed for under 10 minutes and rushed to leave because his friends/roomies were partying at his place, I guess. I was quite pissed that he didn't bother to stick around after he owed me one but I didn't let it show.
He texted me on his way home saying "Hey you're making me feel so bad. You didn't make me want to leave".
Me: "You fled pretty quick for someone who didn't want to leave... are you that excited to party?"
Him: "No but I was expected! :P it's not gonna be a party, it'll be a chill night"
Me: "You were expected here as well. Anyway. Maybe we'll catch up tomorrow. My roomie has poker night at friends"
Yeah, I meant it as "My apartment is clear for us tomorrow night. Wanna come?". We're never really alone at his place either, so I thought he'd jump on the occasion. Fastforward to today. He didn't show up to our common classes this afternoon cause he was lazy and had hockey practice at 4 with friends. I caved and texted him around 3. He replied in a timely manner (he always does), we chatted a bit and I let him know that I wasn't going out to the pub as normal tonight and to text me if he wasn't too drained after practice. His last reply was at 3:45 : "I'm not going to the pub either. I'll keep you posted".
So now it's 10:15. He still hasn't texted me. I'm pretty offended actually, particularly considering that he ditched me last night, didn't text me all day and didn't text tonight when he said he would. I take this as a clear sign that he's lost interest and doesn't want to date me anymore (isn't willing to make any effort to anyway). Am I jumping to conclusions too early or is my intuition right? I don't want to waste my time and there's no way in hell I'll run after him, I've made my fair share of courtship already.
Right now I'm restraining myself from texting him some bitter remark about not keeping his word. If he has the nerve to text me tonight at bootycall hour, I think I'll lose it and tell him to f*** off for good, he better not!
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I can't say if he lost interest but I have to admit that he seems both selfish and irresponsible.0