I have very unique name and my parent chose it for me because in the country they came from only noble man usual receive this name.
in America my name gets laughed at or people make fun of it because its not "normal" in fact women always reject me because of my name.
its real annoying that people have a problem with my name.
if I change my name I could get way more job offers and dates , crushes. I should get a name like Jim Thomas but I will dishonor my country man.
I was specifically named after a tyrant king from middle ages who Americans don't even know about, My parent gave the name in hopes of me doing great things and to become a leader !
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Your name does hold a lot of weight and for many, it literally does affect the trajectory of their lives. Names do mean something. No one would take a hard core rapper named Tweety seriously.
You could change your name, but that's a bit drastic. Have you considered giving yourself a nick name? For example, if it were Hitler, (I don't know, that's just the worst I can come up with) You could introduce yourself as Harry. Only once you've gotten to know them better and you trust them do you tell them your full name. You don't have to hide the fact that you hate your name or that you're using a nick name. You just reserve the right to let them know on your terms.
And make sure that you're not putting out negative energy. Obviously, your name is affecting you negatively. A lot of times we sabotage our chances of success from the start because we expect to be mistreated or denied.
Think positively, use a nick name and tell them your name when you're ready.
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