I'm 21 yo I've been dating this caribbean girl for 3 months. But things started pissing me off now. So here is a thing we live 40 miles away. I work full time as a CNC machine operator and also I am a full time student majoring in engineering.. She is 22 just graduated with BA in psychology working part time as a advisor for people with mental problems also part time as a waitress at Bertucci's. So I've always been nice to her keeping car door open and stuff like that paying on first dates. That's how I was raised to treat people right. But she don't show any effort to pay for anything always me, which is inappropriate I'm not made of money I have my own expenses as well. Then one day we hanged out at my house and she asked me if I could help her paying her iphone 5 bill which pissed me off as hell I ignored her and she asked me after a while You gonna help me or not? I lied I don't have money right now then she got angry. After we finished watching movies and I drove her back home she started kissing me and cuddle saying all those sweet words and stuff like that. On our first date we went to Big E fair in Mass. So I pick her up it was our first meeting she kissed me when we meet and we had a great time I didn't mind paying on first date. Next thing she is constantly txting somebody when she is with me so I confronted her about that. She got angry and said I'm not gonna say what she need to do even tho I had my phone turned off and told me that she is talking with her niece which is for sure BS. Few times we become intimate after french kissing and she allowed me to lick her **** but when I tried do something more she said are you in rush. I don't understand what rush if she allowed me to touch her... We talked a lot on the phone and txting each other everyday for all day for 3 weeks now she became distant to me we don't french kiss or nothing just normal kiss an cuddling I'm the one who need to txt her first we don't talk on the phone like before just few messages I fell like she is doing me a huge favor talking with me now and everything I say like why you become so distant or stuff like that when I'm putting all of my effort to make it work she is getting angry or don't reply saying that she feels like doing all but I do nothing which is freakin stupid. I take her to Niagara falls two weeks ago and thought we become closer. Nothing happened I spent my whole weekly check she bought me like one beer that's it same with making love just kissing cuddling and sweet words. I wanted to take bubble bath with her but she was afraid so I ended up taking it alone she was watching and talking with me. Last week I sent her dozen of roses to her home to show that I care. I love her but what she is doing is making me feel like shit. I gonna call her but what exactly should I say. because if I say something wrong she immediately telling me that I have problems with her and she is doing everything to me. Should I say that I love her at that point tomake her believe
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I'm sorry, but this chick must think you are made out of money. Cut that off!
Getting angry with the phone business already? Sketchy.
She'll receive, but not show any in return for you?
I strongly feel that she is only worried about her needs and no one else. This relationship should be 50/50, NOT 90/10. You deserve better, especially with all the respect and morals you have. chivalry ISN'T dead. Get yourself a girl that will appreciate a single rose so much she will shed a tear, a woman that will blush whenever you open a door for her, and one that will work with you and not against you.
Good luck on your journey. I know you like her, but she's bad for your health.1