What are some reasons you may lose interest in the person you are dating?
-They got too clingy way too fast
-They said something that just immediately turned me off (like a major dealbreaker)
-They never showed enough interest in me so I just got frustrated and moved on
-We never change anything up/always do the same thing so I got bored (i.e. one guy I dated every time we would go to the same restaurant for dinner, talk about the same stuff, and sometimes watch a movie. We never did anything fun, even when I suggested it to him, so I just got bored)
Mainly the first one though for me haha.
What are your reasons? (:
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okay I'll try to cover most reasons what makes a guy to lose his interest in a girl -
- He feels suffocated and trapped
If you have been the type of girlfriend that has been too demanding, nagging, possessive and jealous who has not let him out of your sight, it is no surprise that he is feeling suffocated and trapped in a relationship he does not want anymore. No wonder he has lost interest in you.
- His feelings were shallow in the first place
If he has been dating you as a mere "fling" or just to pass the time, then his feelings were not strong enough to survive for more than a few weeks. He is bound to lose interest in you after a while and will prove his insincerity by being bored and disinterested around you. You would do well to forget him.
- He is on the look out for something better
If your guy is the cheating type and is just playing the field, then you have no hope of latching on to him. He is probably already on the lookout for someone more exciting and "better" than you. He will leave you when he does find someone else.
- He finds you too intense
Some times a man will get into a relationship without realizing that his partner may want something more serious and intense. If you have been the serious one in the relationship, he is bound to feel that you are not compatible, especially if he is fickle, less serious and reluctant to take on responsibilities of any kind.
- He senses you want to get seriously hitched
Even though he really liked you and is still very attracted to you, it could be that he is not ready for any kind of commitment. If you have been showing him that you are waiting for him to propose to you or make a commitment to you, it will frighten him off and he will lose interest in you.
- You have too much emotional baggage
Have you got into the relationship with a lot of past baggage - emotional and otherwise? If you have, you should ask
In my own opinion in many cases girls blame them self but there is nothing to do with them. Some guys follow that pattern with every girl.1