(•) I went on a date last night with this Girl,I said about dinner and she said I'd rather go to a Pub.And I was that's fine,So I went to her house with a bottle of wine and I gave her a Christmas present.When we went to the pub,I bought her a drink but then 10minutes later she asked for another drink,I got her a another drink but then 10minutes after that she asked for another one :/ And I got her another one...But then we went to the club and she was all over this really ugly guy and then she told me that night for me to help her find a Bi-sexual girlfriend and she was being serious...
(•) I feel so stupid and sad and used and I need YOUR advice please.I even dressed up for her and got advice off you girls yesterday for the date,Got her drink,Respected her,made sure she was okay,got her a gift,wine and this is what I get :( and then telling me to help her find a bi-sexual girl for her and goes off with this Really ugly guy to another club and left me behind outside as I couldn't get in because the bouncer was nasty- Spots,scars, you name it that guy had it,I need your advice please :(
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She was being really rude and selfish. To be honest with you, you should've left after she was literally asking for drinks every couple of minutes. Not every girl is like that, let me tell you that. Though it sucks, just see it as a lesson. Not every date will go great or will even be "fine", some will suck and make you count down the minutes you can go home. I've been on dates like that. Though I do think it's not such a bad idea to meet up for something casual first. No dinner, because then you feel kinda obligated to sit through dinner even though the date isn't going that well. So maybe take your next girl out for a drink (and try to notice if she offers to pay for some too), or if there's an event during the day (or evening) that you'd like to do.
How long have you been talking to this girl before you asked her out? I do think it was very sweet of you to bring her a gift and make so much effort, so don't let one (or a couple) bad dates get you down, there will always be crappy dates, but there will be great dates too, and when you find a girl who makes a date great, then you'll forget about all those crappy ones or even find them quite funny.1