We have been married for 2 years and our marriage is not going on well.We don't get along much but we stay for some reasons.Two days ago while he went to the wash room at the gas station I sneaked his phone and found out some of his conversations where he just admit about his status and that girl was getting mad about it.In that text he seems begged her not to leave and told her he isn't happy with me.The worst part is he even told her that he always feels like he is single and I seem don't exist in his life! He kept telling her how he missed her so much and apologized to her non-stop,asking her if she still want to be with him.He has many of her pictures and even sent her his topless pictures.There are a lot more crazy stuffs about both of them inside.Now I thought about confronting him but I am not well prepared.My question is does he love her? Or he just want to have a good time? I know he brought her to movies and dinner too.
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Ok... you're in a shitty situation. I feel sorry for you. But you're only 27, and way too young to lock yourself into a shitty situation for the rest of your life.
First thing you've got to do is take accountability for letting your marriage slip into the state it's in in the first place. Lets face it, it's a huge factor for what your husband is cheating, and regardless of whether he stays your husband in the future or not, if you don't get this problem under control, the same thing will just happen again and again in the future.
Then, you've go to do what's best for you. You've still got time to go and find another, more perfect husband and that is a real possible solution you've got to consider.1
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