I went on a few dates with a woman who I thought was totally in to me. She was the sweetest woman I have ever met, sending messages, bringing me home baked goods, just really nice. After one of our dates she asks if she can go down on me. I politely decline. A few more dates and a couple of excuses for not going to her apartment. I gave in and went to her place with the agreement no sex. We cuddled and made out the whole night. We dozed off a few times. One time I am awakened by her on top of me totally naked. After a while I tell her I need to go before we do something we shouldn't. We talk for a while and end up dozing off again. This time she wakes me up the same way and we couldn't stop. I end up leaving at 2pm that afternoon on a trip to see family. I was supposed to leave my home at 8 am. When I left that afternoon we both agreed we had gone too far. We messaged over Thanksgiving and I have had one date for a walk in the park since then. She hinted about going to her place, but we agreed it was again too soon. Now my phone calls go to voice mail. I have sent her a few messages, she has sent me one 3 days ago.
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Wish I could shed some light on the situation but she sounds really weird, honestly. She pushes for sex, has an orgasm, and then doesn't want you to come? Were you not wearing a condom or something? Who doesn't want their partner to come or gets mad about it? Maybe because in her mind that sealed the deal, so to speak, and now she's mad at herself for doing that but taking it out on you? But I don't know, doesn't make sense to me either.0