This is kind of a follow up to a question I already asked but didn't give enough coverage on one of the possible outcomes. I have a friend who suffered a break up shortly after they had a kid. He has been pursuing childless women without much luck. I told him he should try dating women with kids, because they are in the same "drama" boat sort of, and the pressure isn't on anymore for her to have her first born with a man who would also be his first born. He seems skeptical but sounds like he might be willing to try. Does this theory hold any merit?
- Yes, it would be easier to date a woman with kids.40% (2)33% (1)38% (3)Vote
- No, even with kids of her own, that's still too much for a woman to handle.20% (1)0% (0)12% (1)Vote
- Inconclusive, could go either way, depending on the woman.40% (2)67% (2)50% (4)Vote
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I wouldn't date a man with kids but my friend is dating a man with a kid and cares for him as if he is her own blood, she is childless.
I know women with kids who simply don't date, I know women with kids who don't date men with kids, amd I know women with kids who date men with no kids, and I know women with kids who date other women.
So it really depends on the woman. But this guy may have other issues that repulse women away if he hasn't been able to find anyone. Personal reflection usually answers why someone is single, if they chose to be honest with themselves.1