Whenever I see a good girl going out with a punk ass I just want to scream. Why do they waste their time? Picture these girls in a few years, they won't be dating him and they'll probably be with or married to a good, career minded man, that may or maybe not have gotten much female attention when he was younger, and that is a good father figure. I wouldn't put it past girls anymore that they couldn't even recognize a good guy when he was right in front of her face, or she'll find some way to fault him enough so she doesn't feel like she should date him. Wouldn't surprise me at all!
Like I said, I probably shouldn't even care that much but why the hell do they waste their time? It gets me so pissed off.
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it's immaturity and insecurity. young girls are insecure, still developing into themselves. the bad boy is exciting and knows how to get her attention. it often takes a bad boy to understand what a relationship should and should not be. the bad boy is often more aggressive at getting her. he is fun and exciting and for a young girl who may not understand or be thinking about marriage yet she jumps at the opportunity.
this is especially true if she has daddy issues or did not grow up seeing a respectful relationship between two adults. I've been there, done that. I dated a few bad boys and I finally learned my lesson. now I only want good guys. no, I did not sleep with all the bad boys I am a virgin so don't call me a hypocrite. I dated the bad boys because they were aggressive and exciting and knew how to keep me on a hook before my self esteem was high enough to know better.2
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