I was at a party with a friend on Friday, and I met my friends friend who kept staring at me gave me his number. I didn't feel a connection, and thought he was kind of cheesy. He had also JUST broken up with his last girlfriend, so I was thinking that either I was just a rebound girl, or he doesn't care about relationships. Needless to say, I didn't call him.
My friend keeps criticizing me, calling me vain ,and telling me I didn't give him a fair chance. She told me that the reason I don't have a date for prom is because I aim too high, and that he is my type because he is funny.
Out of all the qualities I like in a guy, funny was the only one he had.
Should I have given him more of a chance? Am I vain?
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If you didn't feel a connection you were in the right - it's a lot better than giving him a shot and then throwing him out of your life like a piece of old luggage you don't want to carry ^_^
keep in mind, if your getting comments like that from your friends that you are being "vain" that you should take a close look at yourself - if you put yourself way up there on a pedistle then pull yourself back down -- we're all human, even if you don't want to be approached all the time, its easier to help someone that isn't being "vain"
You were in the right though, I wouldn't want a girl to give it a shot if she knew it wasn't what she wanted - that would be stupid as hell, I would get my hopes up thinking its going somewhere (of course playing it cool... *brushes off shirt*) but at the same time it wouldn't be going anywhere and I would(nt) get shut down.
Hope it helps~