I've always wondered why do so many people give guys a hard time when they say they deserve a girl/women who's a 10? Some just assume the guy will only get a 10 if he's a 10 or good looking himself. But what I don't understand is if a girl/women wanted to date someone who's a 10 people will tell her go for it. So why the double standard? I'll admit I'm a 5 on a bad day and probably a solid 7 if I dress nice, smell good and confident which I rarely am so why aren't I allowed to date a 10? If I'm confident? But a girl/women can no matter what she looks like.
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I don't know why either. Guys are expected to take what they can get and settle for less when it comes to dating, but women are never expected to settle or to take what they can get . While no one is entitled to having a particular mate, I think society expects men to settle and take what they can get more than women2