I'm reading a lot of profiles online and it seems like many girls out there are looking for something way too specific. I'm not referring to "picky" necessarily but a certain "dream" of theirs.
Like a girl wants to be a stay at home mom and is looking for a guy who wants just that.
Or a girl looking for an "amazing first date" followed by a huge list of what that date will be. So she only wants a guy to fulfill that fantasy and take her to those places and share those experiences with her.
Or the famous "shopping list" where the guy must have followed by a list of anything ranging from living situations to his hairstyle even.
What do you make of such girls? Are other guys noticing this same thing? I feel like it's becoming more and more common now. Are there still plenty of girls who wouldn't mind just sitting over a cup of coffee and getting to know someone and seeing where it goes?
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There's always specifics when you ask someone, especially girls, to tell you to list the particulars of what they want/are looking for (and dating sites are so bad when it come to that, I honestly think it brings out some of the most shallow, soulless parts of some people). What's in the 'shopping list' is usually way more than what they will actually be happy with, though. When it comes right down to it, half of it they probably don't even care about as much as they appear to. I've never known a girl in real life who minded having coffee and a chat with a guy she may be interested in.0