Any guys have this problem? How am I supposed to know who it is? There's not even a caption on the bottom like "I'm on the left" or something. Some of these profiles have no photos of them by themselves either. I honestly skip over the profiles completely because I don't know who it is.
Also girls do you see guys doing the same thing?
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Probably because they're the least attractive in the photo and they think the guys will believe they're messaging the most attractive. It's a way to boost the number of messages that they'd otherwise get if they used a photo of themselves or actually identified themselves in a multi-person photo. I tend to be reluctant to message those girls because I don't know who I'm messaging (clearly you're in the same boat as me) so the results to this tactic are mixed at best.1