there was this bar in my hometown that I was in a love hate relationship with , I hated the place and though girls there were sexy but very mean and next to impossible to date . but I still sent there often on Saturday nights for something to do as its a smaller city and not a lot of social options here and did have some friends who also went from time to time .
anyways I found out last weekend the bar has closed down and no longer in business as a nightclub . to be honest I feel somewhat relived that I can't go there anymore as it closing down was about only way I was going to stop going there and now I can move on with my life . even though I know I wasn't going to have much success or land any dates there , to be honest in entire time which was a few years of going to this bar I don't recall ever getting a phone # , buying a girl a drink or dancing with a girl but I still went and don't even know why .
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You probably just didn't fit in. Every bar/club has a niche or scene they cater to and if you don't fit that scene then you won't get play. I live in a smaller city and I prefer to drive about 25 miles out to the next largest city to party. I feel like the club in my town has too many people I went to school with and I'd like to forget about those days lol0