So I was completely into this girl in one of my classes this last semester. She's a beautiful redhead and has amazing eyes and was just really great and easy to talk to, I thought there could of been a connection there, then I saw her on campus with a guy who was who I assume is her boyfriend and she is so out of his league its not even funny.
They're kind of a different looking couple, not to sound racist but he's a soccer player (Mexican) and she just seems like a good sweet girl. I mean she's a 10 and he's this guy who kind of looks more quiet and looks like he has acne. I know looks aren't everything but I just don't get it.
Can anyone explain to me how these unattractive guys pull in these gorgeous girls?
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It's jealousy that makes you perceive him as unattractive. More or less denial, I'd say.
Of course you see all of his flaws, and don't even want to think he has positive sides, because you hurt.
I'm very sorry that you can't have her. I know the feeling, I spent my teenage years and early adulthood seeing girls I had fallen for not caring about me, and ending up with douche bags (or decent guys, and they got happily married with kids).
But take that opportunity to think about relationships. Grow up inside, become that mature person any partner will love because they will know what really matters in life.
There's not much you can do about it, except for thinking and learning about life.
Good luck :)2