After a long bumpy relationship and an even longer breakup, and both blocking each other ( yes it was all too dysfunctional ) I finally decide that I will leave him alone...(it really is a LONG story)...after one week of not emailing him ( I can no longer text or call because he blocked me), I receive a text at 1:15am of 3 naked gay guys ( it was a generic pic and staged )...WTH does this mean? ( yes,he is dysfunctional and that is why I pushed him away so many times, but dumb me kept letting him back in...we have not had a relationship for over a year, but we continued to text at times and talk occasionally ... I obviously was somewhat dysfunctional too because after pushing him away ( for good reason) I would start missing him & decide that I wanted him in my life ( at least as a friend ) because he really had been a good friend in a lot of ways...but, he has been dating a woman since before we officially ended our "relationship"...I believe that he began pushing me away because he owed me money and did not want to pay me back...anyway, after we ended, he sent so many mixed messages and always said that I broke his heart and would send me messages that made it appear that he missed me...long complicated story...but my question is...WHY did he send me a photo at 1:15am of 3 naked guys? It actually crushed me because I obviously still do care...I wish that I did not and I am trying not to...but this has me really wondering...WHY would he do this ? We are both in our early 50's ( he does drink too much, so I am sure that he was drunk when he sent it & probably does not even remember sending it...one more huge red flag, huh?
"so are you gay ? or Bi ? Or what ? "
And he replied :
" Hell no! Horsing around with the gang from garage. Disregard! Sorry! "
So I guess that they all got a laugh at my expense...whatever ...50 year old hanging out with 30 year olds ...grow up.
At least he apologized...
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Well in general I suppose off topic you sound just like my mother used to act with her ex. Push pull push pull when it was obviously a shitty situation and unbelievably unhealthy.
To answer your question. Was he acting with the other 2 gay guys? Or did he just send you a photo of a scene out of p*rn or something?
If It's the first, I don't know what to tell you other than to just stop all contact with the man.
If it's the second, well then I think he was just fucking with you.
I don't really know. Good luck!0
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