So the other day things were heating up between me and my girlfriend. I started fingering her but this time I did something different, I did it in a way that it created kind if a suction just as I was pulling my finger out and her reaction was kind of hard to read. She stared to pinch her legs together each time I did it and would flinch a bit. I thought that meant she may have not liked it and squeezed her legs together to make me stop. But she started to get more aggressive and basically jumped me and started kissing more passionately I guess you would say? And she started to do stuff she wouldn't normally do like kiss my neck and chest a lot.
SO! From what I've told you do you think she liked it and I should keep doing it or no?
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Everybody else said she probably liked it, but I'm not so sure...
When my boyfriend does something that kinda hurts or is uncomfortable (but I don't want to wreck his ego because it's not that big a deal), I will do something very similar to what your girlfriend did. I'll clench up, try to pull away as subtly as I can...then I'll try kissing or massaging him passionately to focus his attention somewhere else and stop doing whatever he's doing that I didn't like.
But maybe she liked it! This is just my experience I'm offering, so maybe it's different for most people - but that sounds like she didn't like it.
To be sure, it's always best to just ask her!1