Actually it's the other way around; if I offer to split the bill on the first date it's because I don't like him nor see it going towards 2nd date or further and want to leave ASAP.
Apparently I made 3 guys confused and they really thought they were going to have a second date and one of them said ''That was so sweet, so let me when you want to meet me again''.
Sweet nothing, I didn't like him; he kept talking about his exes.
If I don't like you then I'll offer to split the bill on the first date and that's it.
If I like you a lot, I don't offer and will start contributing on the 2nd or 3rd date... then we switch turns from then on.
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Because most girls will just let the guy pay and have absolutely no conscience about a guy paying for a date. Gold diggers literally get off on seeing how many guys they can scrounge money from.
So in a typical girl's head it's like "I don't like him, so I don't want to waste money on him, let him pay and I just won't respond to his text if he wants a second date."
So if you pay, the guy's thinking "This girl is cool, she doesn't use guys for money. She must actually be considerate to my financial needs. Maybe she does like me."1