Recently I have been on a few dates with three different guys who age through 19-21. The dates I have been on went well and progressed to second/third dates. However, each guy brings something completely new to the table (metaphorically). Guy #1 is athletic, handsome, charismatic, goes to college, good sense of humor, BUT has told me 3x's how attractive my best friends are, even when I didn't ask him at all if they were! So, in a way that kind of tuned me off from him for now. Guy #2 is a tennis player, goes to college, has a job, a really sweet guy, but I don't really feel that physically attracted to him; his personality is great though. Guy #3 is an MMA fighter, quite handsome, very conversational, has a job, kinda sarcastic, BUT doesn't know what he wants to be/ do career-wise, even tho he's 21 already. SO, I have kissed each guy (second dates) to see who I have more of a chemistry/attraction to more, and I kinda messed around with Guy #2. Yet, after I didn't have any feelings of excitement with any of them...I don't want to lead any of them on. I really did like Guy #1, but after his kinda rude comments, I just don't know anymore. Any dating/guy advice would really help. I want to know if it's me who is emotionally disconnected from these guys, or there are any "red flags"/ warnings I should be seeing from them? Thanks.
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When you say you messed around with Guy #2 how far did you go...sex, touching, hj, bj? If so did that change how you feel about him. As for #1 it sounds like you like him except for his big mouth, try telling him that you don't want to hear about your hot girlfriends, see if that mellows him out a bit.
However, it is great that you have some choices...not everyone has those options.0